Thursday, September 4, 2014

Self-Talk



Do you talk to yourself ? 

It's not crazy to talk to yourself, right?




Video Script:
There are two ways to "self talk" to yourself, and each one can have a positive or negative effect. Elizabeth Bernstein joins Lunch Break to discuss. Photo: Getty.
Do you ever talk to yourself?
Be honest.
Researchers say talking to yourself, out loud, is more common than many of us might care to admit. Psychologists call it "self talk" and say how we do it makes a big difference in both our mood and our behavior.
Most people engage in self-talk, experts say, though some do it louder and more often than others. When I asked, I heard from people who talk to themselves in the basement, in their cubicle at work and at the urinal in the men's room. One woman turns the car radio down so she can hear herself better.
Self-talk is what happens when you make yourself the target of your own comments, advice or reminders. Experts consider it a subset of thinking. You're having a conversation with yourself.
Tell It Like It Is | It's OK to talk to yourself, with honest feedback and encouragement, experts say. Kyle T. Webster
My father talks to himself pretty much everywhere, including at the dinner table. He is more interested than anyone else is in what he has to say, he says. He taught my two sisters and me to high-five ourselves when we do something well.
Sometimes self-talk is automatic. Other times we do it deliberately to influence our own behavior. "What happens with self-talk is you stimulate your action, direct your action and evaluate your action," says Antonis Hatzigeorgiadis, associate professor at the University of Thessaly in Trikala, Greece, who studies self-talk and the psychology of sports performance.
Motivational self-talk includes what we say to psych ourselves up: "Come on!" "Let's go!" "You can do this!" Instructional self-talk walks us through a specific task. If you are driving, you might tell yourself to turn right at the next light, and then you do it. "It sounds simple, but you get the correct reaction," says Dr. Hatzigeorgiadis.
Instructional self-talk is helpful when learning or practicing a new sport or task, he says. For example, a swimmer can remind himself to keep his elbow high during freestyle. Before giving a speech, someone might tell herself, "Speak slower" and "Make eye contact."
It is important to be short, precise—and consistent. "You have to sustain it," Dr. Hatzigeorgiadis says. "You instruct yourself until it becomes automatic."
The way you address yourself matters, too. Research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology in February found people who spoke to themselves as another person would—using their own name or the pronoun "you"—performed better under stress than people who used the word "I."
In one study, University of Michigan researchers induced stress in participants by telling them they had to prepare a speech to give to a panel of judges about their qualifications for a dream job. They were given five minutes to prepare and told they couldn't use notes.
Half the participants were instructed to work through their anxiety using the first-person pronoun ("Why am I nervous?"). The other half were told to address themselves by name or the pronoun "you" ("Why are you nervous?"). Afterward, each participant was asked to estimate how much shame he or she experienced right after the speech, and how much subsequent ruminating they did.
The results were consistent: People whose self-talk used their names or "you" reported less shame and ruminated less than the ones who used "I." The judges found the performances of those using "you" to be more confident, less nervous and more persuasive.
When people think of themselves as another person, "it allows them to give themselves objective, helpful feedback," says Ethan Kross, associate professor of psychology and director of the Self-Control and Emotion Laboratory at the University of Michigan.
Don Ingraham, a 77-year-old retired chief executive of a chemical distribution company, has been talking to himself for more than 70 years. He was a lonely child—his brothers were much older—and invented three imaginary friends, Bobby Palmer, Bobby Engine and Ainsley Oates, with whom he had regular conversations.
As an adult, Mr. Ingraham compliments himself when he does something well, such as the level base he built for an outdoor sink on the flagstone patio at his Austin County ranch, in Texas.
"Good job!" he said to himself. "You took the time to make it right." Sometimes, he scolds himself. He says it's his conscience speaking. While cleaning up tree branches after an ice storm this winter, he accidentally jabbed a sharp stick into his arm. "I used some barnyard words that follow the word 'dumb,' " he says.
Both positive and negative words can influence us in positive and negative ways. Say to yourself, "This job interview is going to be a cakewalk," and you might not get pumped up enough to ace it. Conversely, tell yourself, "You just lost that match, you need to focus harder," and it could spur you to do better in the future.
With critical self-talk, identify why you are being negative and focus on making it better. Don't say: "I bombed that presentation." Say: "That wasn't your best effort. You need to buckle down now and try harder."
Kathy Gruver, a 44-year-old alternative-medicine practitioner in Santa Barbara, Calif., once made herself cry while talking to herself about what to say to her then-boyfriend, who hadn't called when he said he would.
Since then, she has learned to speak to herself positively. She repeats daily affirmations, coaches herself on handling difficult clients and walks through the steps of her flying-trapeze workout. "I think it's healthy to talk to yourself," she says. "Throw your Bluetooth in, so people think you're on the phone, and let it all out."
—Write to Elizabeth Bernstein at Elizabeth.Bernstein@wsj.com, or follow her on Facebook and Twitter at EBernsteinWSJ.

Monday, April 21, 2014

Need to do better on tests?


...the worst procrastinators had an average course grade of 2.9 on a 4.0 scale, compared to 3.4 for moderate procrastinators and 3.6 for low procrastinators.

(Bruce Tuckman, professor at Ohio State University)


Stop the cycle. 
Come in to the Learning Lab for some study tips and ideas.

Or, if you like to read,

MEMORY PRINCIPLE
WHEN TO DO THIS
WHY THIS PRINCIPLE IS IMPORTANT
1. Intend to remember.Before beginning study
Your intention is crucial. If you don’t actively plan to remember something, you won’t remember it very well.
2. Get an "overview" of the task.Whenever you begin a new learning project
Getting a preview of the whole process you’re trying to learn will help you later as you read, practice, etc. You’ll be able to fill in details of each part if you start with a simplified version of the whole task first.
3. Review immediately after learning.At the end of each study session
Most forgetting takes place immediately after learning occurs--not two hours or two days later. Therefore, review immediately, even if just for a few minutes.
4. Learn actively.Always
Most learning time should be actively self-testing and practice rather than passively re-reading. Expose as many senses as possible to the material--read it, hear it, visualize it, etc.
5. Use an hour or two.When you’re trying to read a whole chapter
Complex learning such as understanding new relationships learning how to solve a problem requires longer periods of time for efficient learning.
6. Use two to five minutes.When you have a simple mechanical task or rote-memorization
Simple tasks and especially anything you have to memorize task are better learned in short, frequent practice sessions rather than an hour or two.
7. Practice what you have learned.In between the time you first learn something and the time you’re tested on it
Most forgetting takes place because people haven’t periodically practiced or reviewed what they learned.
8. Learn in an organized way.Always
You’ll remember much more when you have a systematic, orderly view of what you have learned. If you have studied facts as isolated events without seeing relationships between them, then you will forget more quickly.
9. Set  goals for your study session.At the beginning of any learning or retrieving session
This gives you a purpose and a complete overview of each study session, and it will help you become a more systematic and organized learner.

Monday, January 6, 2014

Google Advanced Search

      1. Enter a Search  Term                         
            2. Click the Gear Button for Advance Search                                            









3.  Narrow your Search - for example
by reading level:


Google narrows it down!

Thursday, January 2, 2014

Friday, December 20, 2013

Stay Cool for Final Exams

How to Keep Calm During Tests

Note: Almost everyone experiences some anxiety. 
Some anxiety is a good thing. It keeps you alert.


Before:

STUDY. Put together a study guide from: your notes, your teacher, the text book, practice tests on the internet. Practice, practice, PRACTICE the VOCABULARY - EACH  DAY - a few words at a time.

PRACTICE RELAXING. Think happy thoughts! Think about your favorite pet, a happy memory,  look at an uplifting picture (print one out, or use it as a screen saver), find a soothing scent, carry a worry stone to rub, practice progressive relaxation, deep breathing.

Be aware of what you say to yourself. Write down your negative thoughts and then write a positive thought to dispute each one. Repeat your positive statements to reprogram your mind for success. ENCOURAGE YOURSELF AS YOU WOULD A FRIEND.

Get enough sleep. Eat well. (Consider skipping the caffeine.) Give yourself time and take your time getting there and settling in.

Do something relaxing the hour before the test. Talk about something ELSE with your friends.

If possible, look over the test and plan your approach. Do you have to go in order or can you go forward and back?  Identify sections that are worth the most points and which question you'll start with so you can pace yourself.

ADJUST YOUR TUDE! Give yourself a pep talk. Visualize yourself doing well. Approach the test vigorously.

During:

ASK THE TEACHER TO EXPLAIN any directions that you don't understand, instead of letting anxiety build up because you are not sure about what you are expected to do.

Use everything you know to do well. Be patient with yourself when you get stuck.

THINK OF YOUR ANSWER, then look at the choices. Stuck? Eliminate wrong answers and make an educated guess (if there's no penalty for guessing).

SKIP IT AND GO ON. If you go blank, go on to another question. Mark it and return to it at the end if there is time. On an essay, grab a piece of scratch paper and start jotting down anything you can remember to get your mind working.

PAY ATTENTION TO THE TEST, not yourself, not others. Don't waste time worrying, doubting yourself, blaming yourself, wondering how other people are doing. Keep bringing your thoughts back to the items on the test. Pay attention to what you can do now.

RELAX. If you notice that you are not thinking well, PAUSE. Take several slow deep breaths. Concentrate on your breathing.

If time is running out, go to the questions you know well and/or have the most weight.

After:

Reward yourself for doing your best.

Review test results. Can you identify areas of difficulty? How did you do on the questions you guessed on?


For Next Time:

Become familiar with a variety of test anxiety STRATEGIES~
Health, Exercise, Diet & Rest
Self-Image, Motivation & Attitudes
Expectations about exam content & organization
Preparation and studying
Relaxation Techniques
Releasing Stress and Tension



Sources:
University of Florida Counseling Center
Univ. of Texas Learning Center
U.S. Dept. of Ed.


Thursday, December 12, 2013

I almost killed myself in the parking lot

The runoff problem:
1.                                                               2.















Swale ^

Water Runs off Parking Lots ~

  • Asphalt with no swale--51% 
  • Asphalt with swale--34% 
  • Permeable pavement - with swale--10%


An innovative  improvement.......


POROUS PAVEMENT !


YUP!  The water collected from the AC parking lots, once filtered, is being reused!







Note: porous pavement requires special care.






Monday, October 14, 2013

Online Flashcards

Mr. Harbrook's robot suit.


                  Quizlet.com 
Flashcards
Matching Game
Add Pictures
Practice Quizzes
Share with classmates...
      
Disclaimer - always check the cards for author's accuracy!

Flashcards
Learning Algorithm
(knows on which words you need more practice!)
Sync with Friends


Disclaimer - always check the cards for author's accuracy!


English:
Ms. King 10 CTP on Quizlet:

  On Brainscape:    







Physical Science:
 Poirier

 Keaton

 Palmatier




Spanish:
Spanish 1

Awesome job finding these Tim!